Saturday, December 20, 2008

Play, the sequel (4 years later)

Almost 4 years ago I wrote this post.

Go ahead, read it. I will wait.

[Waits]

You done? Good.

The other night my wife and I took our daughter sledding for the first time. It was really a spur of the moment thing. I was going to make a snowman with her in the front yard. Wrong kind of snow. So I pulled her around on a sled in our yard (which is basically flat). There is a small dip in the yard, and when she went down the dip (I thought she wouldn't like it -- she frightens easily) she giggled at the top of her lungs and yelled, "Wheee!"

The quest was on.

Now, I live in a town called, "The Plains."

No, really.

This is NOT a good name for a town when you want to go sledding. But we went over to a local church in the next neighborhood over that has a small hill behind it. Driving by, the hill hardly seems big enough to sled on. But walking up the hill with a four-year-old, the hill seemed mammoth. I had visions of her getting on the sled, going down the hill, crying and screaming -- never wanting to get on a sled ever again.

She had a ball. She loved it.

Her mom and her went first. And originally I was just going to let the two of them keep going. Two years ago I had surgery on my knee and I have been a little hesitant of anything physical ever since. I had visions of slipping or breaking the sled or whatever. Watching them sled was enough at the time. It was cold and I figured one or two trips down the hill and we would go home. But I decided, I wanted to go down with her.

I sat down on the sled and put her between my legs, shoved off and down the hill we went.

Wheeeee!

Okay, so I can't tell you how much fun I had. No really. I haven't been on a sled for over 25 years. All though my childhood, sledding was a huge part of my life. Every winter we would drag out our sleds and a bunch of us neighborhood kids would race down hills together.

And in that simple moment with my daughter, going down the hill on a sled, I was young again.

There were no financial pressures, no terrorist bombings, no Sudan, no friend with Leukemia, no leading an organization trying to make budget, no aches and pains. I was on this hill behind my house in Toronto, Ohio, racing down the street. School was canceled the next day and I didn't have a care in the world.

After multiple trips down the hill, the snow started to turn to rain, and my wife said, "We better go home." I could have gone a thousand times more. I didn't want that night to ever end.

"Just one more time, please!"

And now, like a child, I sit in anticipation of my next snow day when I can skip school and play once again.

8 comments:

Daniel said...

A beautiful post that stirs up feelings, some good, some melancholy. Paul, the key is to make time for the things that matter, it is necessary and it is Godly. The rest of the "stuff" can wait sometimes, and that is O.K..

Makella said...

I miss it as well. I still can and do a bit, but I miss not feeling guilty about spending the time playing instead of studying or something.. ha... Hope your wrist is feeling better!

Sweet T said...

Tell me you shot some photos!

Anonymous said...

:) Very nice.

jared said...

Sounds like great fun. I went sledding with Jennifer, Tobias and Maya last year and it was a blast. I'll have to find some new hills this year.

Unknown said...

...rosebud...

Anonymous said...

Paul, you should totally go SNOW TUBING - it's all the fun and none of the work! Thehave it at most ski resorts for about 10-15 bucks a person for two or three hours. You get a big inner tube and then get towed up a the hill by a tow rope or in some cases an escalator-type thing, and then you slide down. You can hook together your tubes with your friends/family/strangers which adds weight and makes it go faster. My whole family and everyone from my uncle's church do it every year. (Maybe you could find a place and make it an annual Central event.) I'm pregnant and still considering going because I don't think I can stand missing out!

no simple highway said...

sledding is the best.